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#多倫多旅遊攻略 #TorontoTravel #FamilyTravelingToronto #PlayinToronto #一家大細去遊多倫多

首先如果你一家大細喺指有老人家同細路仔，建議可以搭公共交通去downtown以下地點:

地點1 : #AquariumToronto 即喺水族館，個人感受唔喺好值呢個錢 (價錢Click入碌落去)，但帶細路去放電可以選擇去附近，買唔買票入去睇，邊幾個入去睇就自己決定。場館唔大，喺濃縮版香港海洋公園，唔好對顏值有太大期望，但如果細路要噃學識朋友仔，咁就應該要去吓。

好多人會同你講去電視塔附近，電視塔同水族館其實挨埋好近，入門費都好貴，但唔確定有冇本地身份第一次優惠。但對面馬路有個公園(Roundhouse Park)，四季都可以去，不過冬天室外活動去唔去就自己衡量。公園有個好似工廠外表之建築，入面有一間舒適餐廳同需要你大撒幣之室內遊樂場，帶細路去玩之前自己衡量下。

如果電視塔腳下底冇咩玩，行出去大湖邊有幾個唔算大但都好有文化歷史氣氛之公園，例如Harbourfront Centre 同旁邊幾個Park，睇地圖會見到位置。

以上介紹就比較Downtown Centre同埋需要消費之區域，仲有其他如Scotiabank Arena (中文叫加拿大航空中心，銀行贊助而建)，喺運動中心，有個Food Court，不過出入口好容易令初初去到之遊客迷路，唔識路要問Police同Google Map啦，附近都比較雜，自己注意財不露及人身安全。

地點2 :#HighPark 即喺中文地圖海柏公園。同名地鐵出入口附近有幾間Cafe，又有藥店同公共圖書館，去之前查好位置，帶同老人家時可以自由選擇，安排好行程，因為公園都唔細，腳骨力唔好要睇自己程度。

公園之功能性都好多。因為種好多櫻花，春季去可以賞櫻，就算冬季去都喺一個好選擇。園內有Cafe有兒童遊樂場(所有公園都不含電動遊樂設施，並且免費)，有個細動物園，設有幾種溫和動物。都夠一家大細行吓停吓，又食吓玩吓都至少半日消磨去。

(多倫多賞櫻地圖，來自網絡: 賞櫻介紹)

加拿大好多公園，當你習慣之後你就會明白公園之重要性。一家大細要出去玩得開心，都唔需要吓吓使錢，健康同安全及親近自然，睇落唔使錢先喺最貴嘅無價寶，睇落以為無咩做，但可能從中穫得靈感同舒緩，同時可以進行親子活動及教育。

地點3 :#NiagaraFall 尼亞加拉 瀑布城。喺多倫多生活咗一排而冇去過睇瀑布好似差緊少少嘢，你可以去紐約同布魯克林，然後感受紙醉金迷同金錢之藝術文化，但Niagara Fall城之感受比較緩和，衝擊感冇咁大，而且行程為一日之內，你唔需要給付貴價酒店之費用，又可以帶住一家人去”敗金”。主要街道為Clifton Hill 加上Victoria Ave，一家人可以好Chill地”敗金”。仲有觀瀑塔Skylon Tower可以選擇，當你想”獨”享瀑布去影相。去之前要上網查好當日你想去之設施之開放時間，避免摸門釘。自己揸車去要睇日子，假日都好多人好多車，搭旅遊巴去就要睇好時間安排行程。

去到個感受都冇咩特別，如果你回想起過大海去澳門，可能個感受喺差唔多，不過就唔喺夜繽紛，而喺”瀑繽紛”，唔知大家中意睇有顏色之瀑布，還是有顏色之夜市呢？

如果去到可能好夜又驚貴，可以喺Walmart買定熟食再去，當一家人去野餐，不過記得帶走垃圾同處理好。揸車人士，來去旅途都可以自行選擇落HighWay去農莊買紅酒，途中你會睇到好多牌，去之前都可以查清楚。

去完一程，可能你會搵到之前嗰”差少少”。

I watched a video recently and the topic was, do you find a relationship with someone who really understands you and has the same interests, or do you find someone who is different from you to make the relationship full of sparks? I believe that no matter which choice there is, there is no right or wrong. Your choice only reflects your needs, and it may be that your perspective on things is different due to your different growth stages, so you have no way to judge yourself at that moment. Right and wrong, unless you really know yourself.

So if even the boss of a company doesn’t know what kind of company their company is going to become, or is confused about where their company will go in the future, I really doubt why they feel that their subordinates will make their company more and more prosperous. the better. So he can only be a boss, not a leader. This can also explain why big companies need a CEO, but the boss retreats behind the scenes and becomes a shareholder. A boss who really knows how to let go is actually very powerful.

Therefore, if the boss of a growing company is always looking for talents based on the recommendations of people they think they can trust, do they really have such a unique vision to know what kind of talents they need to hire? There is no distinction between right and wrong. But what is certain is that a company that only looks for the “same” will only show a single gene in talents, just like many people with genetic defects, they will only grow into strange appearances.

Like cats, the purer the breed, the more prone to genetic diseases.

If you continue to obsessively ask for people who are 100 points in your ideals, you may never find those teams that make your company grow, and your dreams and ideals will stop here.

我最近看了一段影片，話題是說你要找到真正理解你並且要有相同興趣的人談戀愛，還是找跟你不一樣的人來讓這段戀情充滿火花？我相信無論哪種選擇都是沒有對錯的，你的選擇只是反映了你的需求，而且可能只是你成長階段的不同導致你對事情的看法不一樣，所以你那一刻沒有辦法去判斷自己是否做得對與錯，除非你真正地認識了自己。

所以一家公司如果連老闆都不知道自己的公司要成為怎樣的公司的時候，或者是對自己公司將來要去哪裡感到迷惑的時候，我真的很懷疑為什麼他們會覺得自己的手下會讓他們的公司好起來。所以他只會是老闆而不是領導者，也就能解釋為什麼大公司都需要CEO，而老闆退到幕後當股東。真正懂得什麼時候放手的老闆其實都很厲害。

因此，如果一家成長中的公司，老闆總是根據自認為信得過的人的推薦而尋找人才的時候，他們真的有這樣獨特的眼光知道自己需要請的是怎樣的人才嗎？是沒有對錯的分別。不過可以肯定的是一家只找”相同”的公司只會在人才的基因上呈現單一，就跟很多的基因缺陷的人一樣，只會成長成奇怪的樣子。

像貓貓一樣，越是純種越是容易基因生病。

如果你繼續沉迷要請的人是你理想中100分的人，可能你永遠也不會找到那些讓你公司成長的團隊，你的夢想和理想也就直接到此為止吧。

Recently, the energy of Pisces and Aquarius is very strong, which is perfect for writing about emotional relationships.

There is a news about a politician in Toronto who resigned due to an affair. I don’t know much about it, but I have many thoughts about it anyway.

First of all, marriage is definitely a responsibility, indicating that you are a mature adult who can take care of the person you love and have common goals. Both sides learn from each other’s love, respect, and appreciation and move towards a better life in the future.

People always consider marriage as a perfect endpoint in life, but many of them have never realized that marriage is actually a stage in life where more learning and growth is required. There are similar examples as well, such as when people mistakenly believe that college graduation marks the end of learning when they are young, or when they think that finding a job means they can retire, or that there is very little to do after retirement.

The world is never short of things to explore and surprises, it’s just that people are more willing to find all sorts of excuses for their own laziness or stubbornness.

Sometimes it takes courage to admit that you simply don’t want to do more and just want to take a break. It may look unpopular and disliked by others, but no one knows better than you what choices you should make during this stage.

Therefore, if you want to make some changes in your life or simply take a break, as long as your life allows it, you should express it bravely, not lose yourself under the gaze of others.

Since different situations can occur in life, it is possible for marriage, composed of two people, to change.

No one understands your feelings in a marriage better than you, even if he or she is your partner. Thus, good communication is the foundation of a complete marriage. I would like to emphasize “complete,” not “perfect.”

Marriage exists in our world not because it is perfect, but because it allows for more life experiences for human beings.

The process of marriage involves growth, emotion, and responsibility. No matter the situation, it may be a life experience you have yet to go through.

But there are no unchanging truths in this world. The experience or process of marriage is neutral, even though the presentation of different marriage relationships on the earth is due to the agreements of different ethnic groups.

The feeling of love may have no answer, but marriage is a part of human society, written into law codes, so marriage must have causes and consequences in this world.

Is the infidelity of one side in marriage the reason for one-sided causes? No. But the cause is definitely a change by one side that the other side did not discover or did not take positive action. Or both sides changed, but both also pretended that nothing was wrong and continued their own lives.

Many people only care about the gains in marriage, deliberately ignoring the responsibilities and problems that need to be faced when the relationship ends. It may also be that humans are easily habituated and gradually ignore things or people they already know well. It may also be a lack of understanding of the relationship between the two in marriage, just getting married for the sake of marriage. There are many other reasons, but all of these may lead to the appearance of a third party.

Therefore, infidelity cannot be caused by a simple reason.

Because they are politicians, public figures, regardless of how strong their work ability is, they will have to resign because of an extramarital affair? Is it a kind of social pressure? However, I don’t approve of infidelity within marriage either, because it’s a form of dishonesty to a certain extent. He should at least handle his own emotional issues. But it’s said that his wife is a very capable person with a certain social status. Sometimes it feels sad for such a strong relationship between the two, because with the increase in work pressure and age, two people who originally had common goals will gradually feel further apart?

Even if ordinary people encounter dissatisfaction in marriage, they probably want to seek help outside, but in fact, there is very little help, because the main reason is that they don’t really understand themselves and the other person, and there is also personal choice. Some people just can’t let go and don’t want to, what are you supposed to do to help?

And going back to a basic problem, people deliberately forget the passion they talked about when they were in love when they get married, so they can keep themselves from pursuing others after they get married. But in reality, people also forget to talk about love with their partners. When both sides become like family members to each other, there is no hope. And with the passage of time, people will progress or stay the same. If both sides move forward, or one side moves forward and the other does not, the two sides will have different thoughts.

So it’s really not possible to go on, then how to communicate well is really important. Regardless of the outcome, it is important to face the problem sincerely and genuinely.

If you and your partner really cannot be each other’s strongest support in the rest of each other’s lives, can’t grow together, and can’t continue to love each other, you must sincerely and genuinely tell each other thank you and appreciate each other for accompanying you on this important journey in life. If you have children, communicate sincerely with them as well, and thank them for being your children and making each other the most important family members.

Separation is not the main solution, but in an unworkable and uncommunicative love, there is no need to deceive each other and pretend to keep it going. But also don’t resolve it with any form of violence, because there is no need to harm each other. Unless you are an abusive fanatic… but even then, tell your partner directly, you never know if they might enjoy accommodating your interests too, haha.

I really hope everyone can clearly understand their feelings and sincerely face their lives, including love.

最近雙魚座及水瓶座的能量很強，正好適合寫關於情感關係的感想。

有一篇關於一位Toronto政客因為外遇而辭職的新聞，我了解得並不多，但我却因為這樣而有了很多感想。

首先婚姻肯定是一個責任，表示你是一個成熟的成年人，可以負擔起照顧所愛之人的責任，並且雙方有了共同的目標，從對方的愛和尊敬和互相欣賞中學習，向未來更好的人生邁進。

人們總是認為婚姻就是人生的一個完美句點，但很多人從來沒有想清楚的是，婚姻才是人生需要更多學習和成長的階段。這種情況也有很類似的例子，例如人們在年輕時錯誤地認為大學畢業就是學習的句號，又例如人們以為找到一份工作可以做到退休，又例如退休後可以做的事情很少。

這個世界從來不缺少可以探索的事情和驚喜，只是人們會比較願意為自己找盡各種藉口，合理化自己的懶惰或固執。

有時候直接承認自己就是不想做更多的事情，很想休息一段時期，也是需要勇氣的。看起來會被其他人討厭，也好像不受歡迎，但沒有人比你更明白你這個階段應該做的選擇。

因此，如果想為自己的人生做一些改變，或單純想休息一段時間，只要你的生活許可，就應該勇敢表達，而不是在他人的眼光下迷失自己。

既然人生當中會有不同的情景發生，那由兩個人組成的婚姻會發生改變是可能的。

沒有人比你更明白你在婚姻中的感受，即使他是你的伴侶。因此良好的溝通，才是婚姻完整的基礎。我特別想強調”完整”，而不是”完美”。

我們的世界會有婚姻，並不是因為婚姻有多完美，而是婚姻讓人類的人生階段可以得到更多的體驗。

婚姻的過程有成長、感動、責任。無論哪一種情景，都可能是你未經歷的人生體驗。

但是這個世界並沒有不變的道理。婚姻的經歷或過程是中性的，即使地球上因為有不同族群的人的約定而有不同婚姻關係的呈現方式。

愛情的感覺可能沒有答案，但婚姻却是人類社會的構成部分，被寫進了法典，所以婚姻在這個世界必須有前因和後果。

婚姻的某一方出軌是單方面的原因嗎？不。但起因肯定是某一方的改變，另一方沒有發現，也沒有采取積極的行動。又或者雙方都改變了，但雙方也假裝沒有異常，繼續各自的生活軌跡。

很多人只關心婚姻中的收穫，而故意忽略掉婚姻的責任和關係結束時需要面對的問題。也可能是人類很容易對自己已經熟知的事情或人物覺得習慣並漸漸變得忽視。也可能對婚姻中的兩人關係的不夠了解，只是為了結婚而結婚。還有很多其他原因，但都可能引發第三者的出現。

所以外遇不可能是由單純的原因引起的。

因為是政客，是公眾人物，所以無論工作能力多強，都會因為外遇而需要辭職？算是某種社會壓力嗎？不過我也不贊成婚內外遇，因為這樣算是某種程度的不誠實。他至少應該處理好他自己的情感問題。但據說他妻子是個能力很強的人，有一定的社會地位。有時覺得這樣強的二人關係也很悲傷，因為隨工作壓力和年歲的增長，原本有共同目標的二人，多少也會感覺漸走漸遠吧？

普通人即使在婚姻中遇到不如意的，大概會想向外尋求幫助，但其實很少有幫助，因為最主要的原因還是在於不了解真正的自己和對方，還有的就是個人的選擇意願。有的人就是想不開而不願意放手，你是要怎樣幫助？

而且回歸到一個最基本的問題，人們在結婚以後都會刻意忘記談戀愛時的激情，因此才能讓自己婚後不去追求其他人。但實際的情況是人們同時也忘記了跟自己的伴侶談戀愛。當雙方都變成如同對方的家人的存在時，也已經失去了盼望。再加上時間的推進，人會進步或原地不動。雙方都往前走，或者一方前進了，但另一方沒有，這個時候雙方就會產生不同的想法。

所以真的沒有辦法再繼續走下去，那如何好好地溝通真的很重要。無論結果如何，真心誠意地面對問題是很重要的。

如果你跟你的伴侶真的沒有辦法在彼此的餘生當中成為對方最強有力的支持，也沒有辦法一起成長，更沒有辦法一起戀愛下去，一定要真心誠意地跟對方說謝謝，感謝對方陪你走過的這一段重要的人生道路。如果你們有孩子，也要真心地跟他們溝通，也要感謝他們成為你們的孩子，讓彼此成為了最重要的家人。

分離不是最主要的解決方式，但是在沒有辦法維持和溝通下去的戀愛，真的沒有必要互相欺騙而假裝維持下去。但是也不要用任何熱暴力或冷暴力去解決，因為真的沒有必要互相傷害。除非你是被虐待狂… 但即使是，直接告訴對方，說不定會發現對方也會喜歡配合你的愛好喔，哈哈。

真的很希望大家都能很清楚自己的感覺，真心誠意地面對自己的人生，包括戀愛。

因為月亮才是每個人最心底的追求，或者應該理解為靈魂本質的渴望。所以，月亮星座才是我們每個人談論愛情時，首先需要了解另一半的重點部分。

Because of the moon is everyone’s deepest pursuit, or it should be understood as the desire of the essence of the soul. Therefore, the moon sign is the key part that each of us needs to understand about the other half when we talk about love.

網上很多關於月亮星座的文章，大部分都能說得頭頭是道，在此，我就用我所理解的，試著揣析當中的細微。

There are many articles about the moon constellation on the Internet, most of which can be said in the right way. Here, I will use what I understand and try to decipher the subtleties.

基本上，綜合個人的太陽，金星，火星，就能得知此人傾向的方向。

Basically, by combining the individual’s Sun, Venus, and Mars, you can know the direction that person is inclined to.

月亮射手感情：命盤多火象多較容易衝動，命盤多土象多較穩固，命盤多風象多較冷淡，命盤多水象多較情緒化。

Moon in Sagittarius: More fire signs in the natal chart are more impulsive, more earthy signs in the natal chart are more stable, more airy signs in the natal chart are relatively cold, and more water signs in the natal chart are more emotional.

看完網上較多的月亮射手座解釋，大致能明白射手座其實有著大男人或大女人傾向的月亮星座，但總要看綜合的其他星座因素。因為天生粗神經，不像其他月亮星座的靈魂那樣可以深刻體會到空氣中飄散的情感微波，所以才會有不容易吸收到另一半或身邊朋友的細膩情緒。如果以機器比喻就是天線接收的波段跟別人的不同。

After reading more moon Sagittarius explanations on the Internet, I can roughly understand that Sagittarius actually has a moon constellation that tends to be a big man or a big woman, but it always depends on other constellation factors. Because they are born with thick nerves, unlike other moon sign souls can be deeply experience the emotional microwaves floating in the air, so they will have delicate emotions that are not easily absorbed by the other half or friends around them. If you use a machine analogy, the band received by the antenna is different from that of others.

也正因為如此，有著自己波段的月亮射手座，有時就是需要你不斷用比較直白的話與他們溝通你的規矩和要求，如果他們心是愛你的，就會有所回應或行動。如果沒有的話，一就是趁早放棄，二就是再努力加油，或更換其他的表達方式。例如本來是用說的，試下寫信或寫紙條。他們也許當下錯過了你話語中關於情感的要求，而不是有心要忽略喜愛的另一半。

Because of this, Sagittarius Moon, who has its own wavelength, sometimes needs you to constantly communicate your rules and requirements with them in relatively straightforward words. If their hearts love you, they will respond or act. If not, one is to give up as soon as possible, and the other is to work harder or change the way to expresses. For example, it was originally used to say, try writing a letter or writing a note. They may be missing the emotional demands of your words at the moment, rather than having a heart to ignore their loved one.

不過也有人覺得月亮射手座的人很難掌控，特別是對於總是想用各種框架去限制月亮射手座的人來說，用的方法簡直是大錯特錯。你之所以掌控不了月亮射手座，只因為你的世界太狹窄，融不下這個靈魂對世界真理的追求和體驗之心。而月亮射手很多時候都是遇強越強，如果你要以靈魂的禁錮為目的，他們可以依據你的力度越大，反應越大。如果你用懷柔的策略，給他們溫暖獨立的空間，用大量清晰有質量的溝通洗腦他們，他們會為你停留。

However, there are also people who feel that the Moon in Sagittarius is difficult to control, especially for those who always want to use various frameworks to limit the Moon in Sagittarius, the method used is simply wrong. The reason why you can’t control the moon in Sagittarius is because your world is too narrow and cannot accommodate this soul’s pursuit and experience of the truth of the world. And Moon Sagittarius is often become much stronger when it is facing strength, if you want to imprison your soul for the purpose, they can respond according to the greater your strength, the greater the response. If you use conciliate strategy, give them a warm and independent space, and brainwash them with a lot of clear and quality communication, they will stay for you.

總而言之，如果你喜歡的是他們豐富的靈魂，就不要錯過火侯的掌握。有懂烹飪的人，都知道在何時加把火，而又在何時把火調小，甚至熄火等候冷卻的過程。

All in all, if you like their rich soul, don’t miss Mastering the Fire. Anyone who can cook knows when to turn on the fire, when to turn it down, and even turn it off to wait for the cooling process.